I don't classify myself as kinky. I don't think it's bizarre to play around a little bit, it's only normal, it's only human nature!
But then again I grew up in the Pacific Northwest where people say "I went to a dungeon last night and got whipped" and the response (or at least the one I hear) is "What else is new?" --maybe I need new friends...nah
I guess it comes from finding out new realms of pleasure. How else are you gonna know at what point discomfort (or for some, pain) turns into amazing pleasure? And besides it's fun. The boomboom shouldn't be work, another thing you cross off from the list, or something that you endure while counting theshower window kitchen floor ceiling tiles. It should be a time to explore what makes you feel good. That's what it's all about.
Besides, if you know your partner (and I think you should) this isn't something that becomes common knowledge--not that I think other people should care what you do behind closed doors if it isn't breaking any laws...who are we kidding, of course they care.--it's something that you share between the two (or more) of you.
Don't misunderstand though, I'm not condoning the likes of pedophilia and bestiality. Illegal and disgusting.
But if it's the kind of fun that doesn't break laws and that everyone consents to...go for it.
Think about it this way: How did you know you liked kissing? You grabbed someone and kissed them.
Sleeping with guys? You let him take it and stick it in you. Spanking...I think you know where I'm going with this.
The point is, kinky doesn't really mean anything to me. For some kinky is getting down somewhere outside of the bedroom while for others getting tied up, blind folded, and passed around is just a Friday night. It's all relative.
So I maintain that I'm not of kinky nature, nah, I'm just curious about what else might make me feel good.
So, while others may respond to interesting suggestions with "You want to put that where?!" I generally follow it with "...oh, alright, let's see how that feels."
But then again I grew up in the Pacific Northwest where people say "I went to a dungeon last night and got whipped" and the response (or at least the one I hear) is "What else is new?" --maybe I need new friends...nah
I guess it comes from finding out new realms of pleasure. How else are you gonna know at what point discomfort (or for some, pain) turns into amazing pleasure? And besides it's fun. The boomboom shouldn't be work, another thing you cross off from the list, or something that you endure while counting the
Besides, if you know your partner (and I think you should) this isn't something that becomes common knowledge--not that I think other people should care what you do behind closed doors if it isn't breaking any laws...who are we kidding, of course they care.--it's something that you share between the two (or more) of you.
Don't misunderstand though, I'm not condoning the likes of pedophilia and bestiality. Illegal and disgusting.
But if it's the kind of fun that doesn't break laws and that everyone consents to...go for it.
Think about it this way: How did you know you liked kissing? You grabbed someone and kissed them.
Sleeping with guys? You let him take it and stick it in you. Spanking...I think you know where I'm going with this.
The point is, kinky doesn't really mean anything to me. For some kinky is getting down somewhere outside of the bedroom while for others getting tied up, blind folded, and passed around is just a Friday night. It's all relative.
So I maintain that I'm not of kinky nature, nah, I'm just curious about what else might make me feel good.
So, while others may respond to interesting suggestions with "You want to put that where?!" I generally follow it with "...oh, alright, let's see how that feels."
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